I wasn't going to do this... I'm pretty private about names... I think half the fun of a new baby is finding out the name... especially when you do Invitro and pretty much all of the "surprise" of the process has been taken away from you... but as I've mentioned before we're struggling with names... so I'm posting it here for all to read. Because I really really want your HONEST (but kind) opinions.
I have very very very strong opinions about names... I hate made up names. I hate weird names. I hate "unique" spellings. I can't just like a name... it has to have some significance to us... family/church/etc. I know its weird. But that's just how I am. And Joey is just as opinionated about names as I am.
So here are our three names that we're trying to decide between. Please submit your vote and comments below.
Ezra
I think this is an absolutely horrible name (no offense to Ezra Taft Benson who was a wonderful man and I think very highly of). But I hate everything about the name Ezra.
BUT... this is Joey's very top vote. He LOVES this name. LOVES. Ezra Francks. blech. Have I mentioned I hate it?
John David
One name. He would go by both names. Not John. Not David. John David.
Pros:
It's the name we strongly considered for our first child. It's a family name. John is Joey's dad's first name... David is my dad's name. I think its a beautiful name. I love how it sounds and I love that it works well with our last name.
Cons:
I have two first names... and I've fought my whole life to go by both names. Now that I'm older I like having two names... but its hard.... People always want to drop the second name.
But I'd want him to go by both names. I HATE the name John (no offense to the Johns of the world). I hate the name JD. I'd rather not name him John David than to have him go by John or JD.
Plus on both sides of our families we have a million Johns, Davids and even a John David or two.
Jack
Pros:
We got the name as a nickname from Jacksonville... My dad is from Jacksonville Florida and Jacksonville has a lot of family significance for us and is very near and dear to my family's heart.
I don't like name Jackson... so it would just be Jack.
I like that its common but not too common. People wont have a hard time knowing how to spell or say it.
I love that its a name that would fit a little boy as well as a grown man.
Jack. Easy and simple.
Cons:
It doesn't really flow well with our last name. Jack Francks. That's a whole lot of 'ck' going on.
Joey has an uncle named Jack... we love Uncle Jack. But he would not be named after Uncle Jack. I don't want there to be any confusion about that. :0)
It is a little bit more common than I like... but like I said above its easy to say and easy to spell and that's not a bad thing!
Oh... and before you suggest us naming him John David and calling him Jack... not an option. It will either be one or the other. :0)
So there you have it... our three names we're fighting considering.
Happy Voting! And I love to hear any thoughts or input you have.
